Monster Men
This next trend that has been going on for too long is men who have turned into monsters. The meaning of a “monster man” is a man who feels entitled to treat women like trash. He cheats on his spouse, has children with more than one woman, is a abusive or a deadbeat father who is not a part of his children’s lives. Steve Wilkos himself even stated that he hates men who don’t care about their kids.
Okay, on the trend of men having children with more than one woman; what is so beautiful about having multiple females who are pregnant with your children? What is wrong with just one woman, like say, your girlfriend of your wife? Why 2,3,4,5,6 other women and so on? What is the deal with this nonsense?
On one episode from “The Steve Wilkos Present,” there was a young man who had 3 different women pregnant. Mind you, this guy is seventeen years old. The tragic part of this story is that one of the girls was at the hospital due to a miscarriage. And this guy took it as a big joke. Another episode featured a man who claimed to have had 11 kids by 10 different women. This guy is not even young anymore; he passed that line. All I could think was “what self-respecting woman would allow herself to accept pregnant by this man? ” and the sad part is that he doeas not provide for any of his children. I have already said this before: if you are not in a mature site of mind to be responsible for another precious life, than do not have children.
It is a huge, crying shame that people who can’t conceive children have to adopt. But these poor, immature, unstable people who have children either refuse to provide for them or put them through pure hell. Now that this subject comes to mind, I cannot tell you how disgusted I was when some of these episodes dealt with children who were abused by their parents, especially the father. Your job is to protect and provide for them, not cause them pain. Most of the guests who abused their children claimed to have been on drugs and alcohol. How many excuses can you fabricate for abusing your own children? Let’s list them all:
1) I was high.
2) I was drunk.
3) I was not stable.
4) I was frustrated.
5) I was angry with so and so.
I could keep this list of poor well-thought out excuses going, but you get the point. These other episodes scared me. The episodes that I’m referring to are the ones who featured men who did physical harm to their children while they were still young. One guy broke his baby son’s arms because he was crying. He claimed that the baby boy’s crying frustrated him and that he was “messed up” due to the use of drugs. This guy thought that despite the fact that he did physical harm to his precious little boy, he thought that his girlfriend was going to give him a second chance. However, he knew that there was never going to be any resurrecting this relationship. This episode is called “I Broke My Baby’s Arms.”
Another episode titled “I Hurt My Baby” dealt with the same subject. This featured a man who claimed that he blocked out and hit his son because he was crying. The damage is so severe that the biy has suffered seizures, can’t walk or talk, feed himself and has to wear a diaper. Despite his son’s disability, he said that he still wanted to be a part of his son’s life. When asked if he did indeed block out, he said no. The abusive scumbag lied. He even told his ex-wife the truth. Steve told this “man” to lunge out of the lives of his son and ex-wife and pause away from them.
An episode titled “I Left My Baby On A Train” featured a young man who stabbed his son’s mother in the neck. He then led the police on a chase which resulted in him leaving his son on a train. His son’s mother ststed that he even spanked him and that he was beating up on the new woman that he involved with.
As much as I would like to name more episodes that featured these rotten, child-abusing, scum of the earth lowlives that have plagued society, I can’t. This subject is just too shaded, tragic and heartbreaking. In this day and age, you really don’t get to remove and chose who you want to inherit this earth with. You never know if you are living and breathing the same air with an individual who happens to be monster. In most cases, it is best if you ogle televisionso you are aware of who you might be dealing with in the near future. These “people” (and I use this term very loosely) may be almost anywhere. Be on the look out. I think that all men should take lessons from Barack Obama on how to be a loving, caring and providing father.
The term of “man” has simultaneously been spiraling down the drain ever since. If you do not realize what the definition of a man is, I guess that I may as well voice it to you. A man is a good father and a good husband. He owns up to his mistakes and does not place the blame on anybody but himself. He does not put his loved ones in harms way. He does not beat up on his wife or his children. He does not participate in activities that would result in his reputation being forever tarnished. He treats people of all races with respect and dignity. He does not abuse his family physically, verbally, emotionaly or mentally. He goes out of his way for people who are not as fortunate as he is. He is not a burden on society.
Now that I have given you the meaning of what a man really is, I would suggest that the men who are making thses foul mistakes stop and take a long, long, long search for at themselves. Ask yourself what type of legacy do you want to leave when you travel this earth. Do you want your wife, children, family and friends to be proud of you or do you want them to be ashamed of you? Assume about it. And if that does not work, listen to “Man In The Mirror” by Michael Jackson and listen carefully.
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